Tonight I realized how much my kind is misunderstood, or at least how little experience I have in this world. Perhaps both. I was in the car with my brother who is a freshman in collage and we got on the topic of how much people change over time. Drawing on my own experience I said that people change the most throught middle school(grades 5-8). My brother just graduating from high school said that people change the most through high school. Obviouly we are both drawing from two different life prospectives.
From that subject we got on the subject of the different groups in high school. Now before I go on I am going to give some context to the two of us. I am a super nerd who likes computers and science fiction and I usually get good grades in school. My brother likes weight lifting and stories of war and get average to poor grades in school. As you can see we are near polar opposites of each other.
So how the conversation got started was I said that I believed that Nerds were playing a closer "game" to reality then other people in my same age. My brother on the other hand stated that he thought that nerds are off in there own little land of fantasy. So in response to this I said how we nerds have to learn how to hold our tounges and make friends outside of the social norms. He merly stated that he has seen nerds talk out quite a bit.
At this point in the conversation I decided that this was a battle that I can not win because my brother and I have totaly different life experences, or at least different life experences as of 5th grade and up. Now I wonder if it is possible for me to descibe what sort of "silent torture" I go through to someone with out my life experences. Or perhaps I am overblowing the entire issue.
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